Ep 010 - Where Are All the Bi Men?

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Episode Summary

In this episode of Give It To Me Bi, hosts Chad Barnier and Steve Spencer tackle a major question from their community: where are all the bisexual men? They share personal updates, talk about recent collaborations, and explore the complex issues surrounding bi men's underrepresentation in media and research. Chad and Steve dive into the societal stigma, stereotypes, and challenges that often keep bi men from coming out and living openly.

They discuss how patriarchal expectations of masculinity impact bi men, the fears associated with coming out, and the importance of visibility and community support. Chad and Steve also emphasize the importance of authenticity and how small actions can help create more inclusive spaces for bi men to feel represented. If you've ever felt like your experiences as a bi man are missing from the narrative, this episode is for you.

Memorable Quotes

  1. "We see you, we love you, and we want this to be a conversation." - Chad

  2. "Bi men are often left out of the story, but we’re here, and it’s time we talk about it." - Steve

  3. "Patriarchy doesn't just hurt women, it hurts men too. Especially when it tells us we can't be anything but one-dimensional." - Chad

  4. "Coming out is a brave thing to do, and it’s about showing up as your authentic self, whatever that looks like." - Steve

  5. "The things that make you weird or unique are superpowers." - Chad

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Links & Resources Mentioned

  • BISHH Study: The first community-led and conducted online national survey on bi+ sexual health in Australia

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