Ep 009 - Spilling the Tea: Your Questions, Our Honest Answers (AMA #1)
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Episode Summary
In this self-indulgent and candid episode of Give It To Me Bi, hosts Chad Barnier and Steve Spencer dive headfirst into your burning questions with nothing off-limits. From heartfelt insights into coming out and bi+ identity to the complexities of relationships and career paths, this episode is filled with laughter, awkward moments, and genuine reflections on self-discovery.
You'll hear Chad and Steve open up about their personal journeys, share practical advice for navigating relationships, and discuss their evolving identities. Whether you’re just figuring it all out or already feeling comfortable in your bisexuality, this episode has something for everyone. Plus, they share some of their favorite music recommendations and playlists to set the vibe for your next party.
Memorable Quotes
“So when I was like 25, I had an existential crisis because I thought that I peaked at 23.” - Steve
“I really fucked with the idea of a ‘body of work’—that not everything has to be perfect, but it should contribute to something meaningful over time.” - Chad
“Flow like water, just take the easiest route. Things don’t have to be difficult.” - Steve
“I thought I was just multi-gender attracted. Then I realised bi was actually a thing. But it took a long time to understand that was even an option.” - Steve
"I think confidence for me has come from the fact that coming out as bisexual or reckoning with the fact that I'm bisexual in a relationship...has meant that I've had to defend myself against things that weren't my problem. The stereotypes and myths have forced me to be resolute in where I stand about my identity." - Chad
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Links & Resources Mentioned
BISHH Study: Participate in the bi+ sexual health and wellbeing survey
How to Support Someone Who's Just Come Out as Bisexual – Read the Guide
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